Join Dr. Eleni Boosalis licensed clinical psychologist and co-owner of Del Ray Psych in meditation practices aimed at reducing stress and increasing a sense of calm.
I often hear my clients expressing inner conflict regarding wanting to stay informed regarding politics while also wanting to maintain a sense of peace. The current political climate can feel so threatening, that one may feel they have to take an โall-or-noneโ approach. Is it possible to both stay informed and not be overwhelmed? If so, how do we accomplish this seemingly futile task?
In recent years, the concepts of mindful drinking and sober curiosity have gained traction as lifestyle choices for those seeking a healthier relationship with alcohol. Whether you're exploring sobriety, reducing consumption, or simply becoming more intentional about your choices, these approaches offer a path to better physical, financial and mental well-being.
Relationshipsโwhether friends, family, coworkers, romantic partners, neighbors, or even a random passerbyโare a key part of the human experience. Life is made up of all different kinds of relationships, endless connections and disconnections, which can shape us as individuals and our environment. They can also be a limitless source of joy and energy while also being an endless pit of distress, pain, and anger.
With the sun shining and the flowers blooming, it is only natural for us to desire to be out in nature moving, exploring, and connecting with others. Like the seasons of the past, we can sense the familiarity and joys of the springtime. However, unlike before, we unable to engage in our usual traditions and celebrations of the season or, if we do, it requires a significant degree of conscious thought and planning. The good news is that we are learning that we are more resilient than we thought and capable of adapting in the most trying times, even if we are living our lives in a less preferred way.

Have you ever stopped to think about how many roles you play in your life? Roles within your personal life and also in the professional realm? Perhaps you are a daughter, sister, granddaughter, wife, mother, auntโฆ or a son, brother, grandson, husband, father, uncle, cousinโฆ friend, godparent, and the list goes on... And thatโs just in your personal life. What about a work? Most of us have jobs where we play multiple roles each day. For instance, not long ago, I was a hospital clinician, a researcher on an NIH funded study, and a supervisor to clinical psychology doctoral students doing their practicum training at just one job! With each role we play comes a different list of duties and responsibilities. How do we find balance in juggling these multiple roles?
Many folks create a list of New Yearโs Resolutions, aimed at addressing the guilt, surfeit, and over-indulgence of the holiday season. One sees the results in increased gym memberships, the purchase of sports equipment, a run on self-help books, and planners that include personal, emotional and professional goals. Most resolutions last about two weeks (for the die-hards, about a month) before motivation is extinguished because life got in the way. This is frequently going to happen. Do you recall your resolutions from last year, and did you accomplish them? Thatโs what I thought, and, same here.
In searching for information on the ways that gratitude enhances well-being, I discovered a comprehensive and interesting article titled, The Benefits of Gratitude: 28 Questions Answered Thanks to Gratitude, The author, Courtney Ackerman, lists 5 domains affected positively by gratitude. I have devoted a paragraph to each. It becomes apparent that cultivating this attitude benefits not only the individual, but also expands to all one comes into contact with.
A little help over the holidays? Now thatโs something we can all be grateful for!
With Thanksgiving just a few days away, many of us are preparing to spend time with family and loved ones. Although this time of year can be filled with joy, many of my clients have expressed anxiety around confronting the toxic nature of their families.
As you enter the holiday season, chances are, you bring with you a myriad of thoughts, expectations, and emotional responses based on your current mental focus. During a time in which we are encouraged and reminded to reflect on expressing gratitude and appreciation for the gifts and blessings in life, we may also be struggling to understand or accept the discomfort that might also accompany this time of year, depending on your circumstances. Without awareness, this dichotomy can easily increase stress responses, amping up our anxiety while we prepare ourselves for uncomfortable conversations that have yet to be had or elicit feelings of sadness as the recognition that an ideal circumstance may not be possible begins to settle in our minds.
Today, the the focus is on ways to incorporate a mindfulness based practice to reduce anxiety. We all experience feelings of fear or anxiety in various points in our life but for some these become problematic when they increase in frequency, intensity, and duration to degrees that become disruptive in daily living.
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